The short answer: a push present is a gift for a new mother, and the pieces that tend to suit best are comfortable for daily wear and personal, such as a pendant, studs or a slim bracelet with a birthstone. If you are ordering from abroad, plan the delivery around the due date.
Push presents are a growing tradition in many places, and choosing one from another country adds a few practical points. This guide covers what suits life with a newborn and how to plan.
What new mums tend to wear
- Pieces with smooth edges and low settings, which are less likely to catch on a baby's skin or clothes.
- Jewellery that is easy to put on and take off, since days are unpredictable.
- Something meaningful that she will want to keep wearing as the baby grows.
- Pieces that need little cleaning or fuss.
Ideas
| Gift | Why it works |
|---|---|
| Pendant with the baby's birthstone | Sits close to her and has no sharp parts. |
| Stud earrings | Easy and comfortable for everyday wear. |
| Slim bracelet | Wearable, though the clasp is worth checking. |
| Eternity or stacking ring | Check sizing, since hands can change after birth. |
Personal touches
Choose the stone for the baby's birth month, or use a stone for each child in the family. Ask us about engraving the baby's name or date of birth on the back of a piece. See birthstones by month.
Practical points
- Hands may swell around the birth, so a ring could feel tight for a while.
- Long chains and sharp claws can snag little hands, so a low profile design is a sensible choice.
- Earrings and pendants avoid the question of ring size altogether.
Natural or lab grown
Both are real stones, and we label each clearly, so you can choose what suits the budget. Browse diamonds and lab grown colourless diamonds.
Ordering from abroad
Nothing is made until you approve the design in writing, and our standard making time is 5 to 6 weeks, which can vary with your location and how busy we are. Add time for design and delivery, and remember that due dates can move. Delivery is by insured, tracked FedEx. If you live outside the UK, you pay any import duty and tax that apply in your country, and we explain what to expect.
- Choose the style and stone.
- Approve the design in writing.
- Plan delivery around the due date, with some flexibility.
See birthstone cluster pendants. Pieces start from £600.
Choosing the metal
Yellow gold, rose gold, white gold and platinum all suit daily wear. Choose the one she already wears, so the new piece sits happily with her other jewellery. If you are unsure, send us a photograph of what she wears most and we will suggest a match.
Keeping it a surprise
If the gift is a surprise, use an email address and delivery address she will not see. Our guide to ordering a surprise ring secretly has practical ideas. Delivery is insured and tracked, so choose an address where someone can receive the parcel.
Presenting it
Many people give the piece at a quiet moment after the birth, with a handwritten card. Keep the box and paperwork together, since they help with insurance and future valuations. Our guide to reading your invoice and certificate explains what each document shows.
Frequently asked questions
When should I give it? Whenever suits the family, often after the birth.
Can I order before the baby arrives? Yes, and you can choose the stone for the due month.
What if the baby comes early? Plan a flexible date and tell us your timing.
Can I surprise her? Yes, with a private contact address for the order.