TL;DR: most couples in the UK and US now exchange two rings at the ceremony, one for each partner, but a single ring ceremony is still a real choice and customs differ between countries and families. The right answer is the one that suits the two of you, and a bespoke design can be planned around either.
The UK and Ireland
Two ring ceremonies are now the usual pattern in the UK and Ireland, though plenty of couples still choose one ring, often because one partner prefers not to wear jewellery day to day. Civil and religious ceremonies generally allow either, but if you are marrying in a place of worship it is sensible to ask the officiant what is expected. The ring is commonly worn on the fourth finger of the left hand.
The US and Canada
Most couples in the US and Canada exchange two rings. Some choose a single ring for personal, practical or religious reasons, and it is not unusual for one partner to wear a band made from a durable metal such as platinum or a simple gold band that suits their work.
Europe
Customs on which hand the ring is worn differ across Europe. In some countries wedding rings are traditionally worn on the right hand, and in others couples move a ring from one hand to the other after the ceremony. Rather than assume, ask family members what is usual where you are marrying, and tell us which hand you plan to wear it on, because that can influence the size and the width of band that is comfortable.
Other traditions
Many cultures have their own traditions around marriage jewellery, including a single plain band in some ceremonies, and other pieces worn alongside or instead of a ring. Because these vary between communities and families, we do not describe them as fixed rules. If your ceremony has specific requirements, tell us early so the design can respect them.
Choosing your own way
There is no wrong choice. Some partners prefer not to wear a ring at all, perhaps for work or comfort, and choose a necklace, a signet ring or a watch instead. Others want rings that match, or rings that are clearly different but share a detail such as a metal, a finish or an engraving. Our guide to wedding band styles covers the options.
Engraving the rings
Many couples engrave the inside of their bands with the wedding date, initials or a short phrase. If you exchange two rings, the engravings can match or complete each other, for example one half of a phrase in each band. Keep the wording short, as inner space is limited, and check spelling carefully in writing before it is cut. Our guide to written approval explains how we confirm details with you.
Who carries the rings
Traditionally a best man, a ring bearer or a trusted friend carries the rings to the ceremony. Some couples hand them to a parent or the officiant instead. Agree in advance who will hold them and where they will be kept, and consider carrying a spare pouch so a small ring is never loose in a pocket.
Planning the timing
A bespoke ring is not made until the design is approved in writing, and standard making time is 5 to 6 weeks, varying with your location and how busy we are. If you want two rings ready for a ceremony, order well ahead and allow extra time for insured, tracked FedEx delivery to your country and for any customs checks. You pay any import duty and tax, which differ by country, and we explain what to expect before you order. Pieces start from £600.
Frequently asked questions
Do both partners wear wedding rings?
In the UK and US most couples now exchange two rings, though single ring ceremonies are still chosen.
Which hand is the wedding ring worn on?
Usually the left hand in the UK and US, though customs differ between countries and families. Ask relatives what is usual where you are marrying.
Can we have a one ring ceremony?
Civil and religious ceremonies generally allow either, but check with your officiant if you are unsure.
Can the two rings be designed together?
Yes. We can design bands to match, complement each other or share a single detail, and we review the designs with you by video consultation and message.