The short answer: an anniversary band is a ring given to mark a wedding anniversary, often with diamonds or gemstones, and it can be given at any anniversary, though many couples choose milestone years. Choose a style that suits the ring you already wear, and one you will enjoy.
Anniversary bands are a lovely way to mark time together. Some people give one every year, and others wait for a milestone. Here is how to decide when and what.
When to give one
- First anniversary: a simple, slim band to begin a stack.
- Milestone years: such as the fifth, tenth, twenty fifth or fortieth.
- Any year: there is no rule, and a meaningful date is reason enough.
Our guide to when to give an eternity ring covers the milestones in more detail.
Styles
- Eternity band: stones all the way around.
- Half eternity band: stones across the top.
- Three or five stone band: stones that can stand for years together or children.
- Gemstone band: coloured stones for a personal touch.
Matching what you wear
Think about your engagement ring and wedding band. An anniversary band can echo the metal and the stone shape, or contrast with them. We design the band to sit comfortably with the existing rings.
Building a stack
Many people wear the anniversary band on the same finger as the engagement ring and wedding band. Three rings together need a little planning, because the stack becomes wider and the bands rub against each other. Slim bands, matching metals and a band shaped to sit flush keep the stack comfortable. Some people prefer to wear the anniversary band on the other hand, which is just as meaningful. See stackable bands.
Meaning and personal detail
You can choose stones for birthstones, a colour you love, or a particular count. Engraving inside adds a date or a message. Some people choose a band with one stone for each year, built up over time.
Natural or lab grown
Anniversary bands often use many small stones, so the choice between natural and lab grown affects both the look and the budget. Both are real diamonds, and we label each clearly. We match the stones for colour and size so the band looks even, and so it sits well beside the diamond you already wear.
Sizing
Finger size can change over the years, so it helps to check the current size before making the band. We take care of this in the consultation.
Planning a surprise
If the band is a gift, we can work with you discreetly and discuss how to find the right size without giving the surprise away. A ring your partner already wears on the same finger can be borrowed briefly for sizing, or we can suggest other discreet ways.
Budget and timing
Because each band is made to order, allow enough time before the anniversary. Our standard making time is 5 to 6 weeks, which can vary with your location and how busy we are, so we suggest starting at least two months ahead for a gift with a fixed date. Pieces start from £600, and nothing is made until you approve the design in writing.
How to choose
- Pick the anniversary and the meaning.
- Choose a style that suits the existing rings.
- Decide on stones and metal.
- Add an engraving if you wish.
See wedding band or half eternity ring and eternity rings: a complete guide.
Frequently asked questions
Is an anniversary band only for milestones? No, any anniversary works.
Can an anniversary band be worn with the wedding band? Yes, many people stack them.
Can you make a matching pair for both of us? Yes, to your design.
Can it be resized later? It depends on how far the stones go around the band, and we explain this when we design it.
Can you deliver abroad? Yes, by insured, tracked FedEx, and we explain any import duty and tax for your country.