The best places to propose in Big Sur and Carmel are the cliff top viewpoints along the Pacific Coast Highway, the coves and beaches of Big Sur and the white sand beach and cypress trees of Carmel. Choose a safe viewpoint for drama, or Carmel's beach at sunset for a softer, gentler moment.
In short: Cliff top viewpoints, hidden coves and Carmel's white sand beach make the Big Sur coast one of the most dramatic places to propose in California.
Where to propose in Big Sur and Carmel
A viewpoint on the coast road
The Pacific Coast Highway winds along cliffs above the ocean, with famous bridges and headlands. Use official pull outs, stay well back from cliff edges and walk a short way from the car for privacy.
A Big Sur cove or beach
Several beaches and coves sit below the cliffs, some with dramatic rock arches and waterfalls nearby. Paths can be steep, and some areas close after storms, so check access before you go.
Carmel beach
Carmel's beach of pale sand, framed by cypress trees, is lovely at sunset. The village behind it has cafés, galleries and restaurants for the celebration.
A cypress walk
Coastal walks near Carmel pass twisted cypress trees and rocky shores. They are calm, quiet and beautiful in the soft light of morning or evening.
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Timing and light
Late summer and autumn often bring the clearest days. Spring brings wildflowers. Coastal fog is common, especially in early summer, and winter storms can close sections of the road, so check conditions before you set out.
Choosing a ring for a travel proposal
A proposal away from home puts a ring through more than a usual day: pockets, bags, sun cream and cold hands. Lower profile settings, such as a bezel or a well made claw setting with a protective rail, sit closer to the finger and are less likely to catch. If you are unsure of the size, a design with a plain band is the simplest to adjust afterwards.
Keeping the ring safe on the day
Sea air, sand and wind all call for care. Keep the ring in a zipped inside pocket, open the box low and close to your body, and step back from the water's edge before you kneel. Carry the ring in a slim pouch or a low profile box in an inside pocket rather than a bag, because a square box shows through clothing and bags get put down. If you are flying in, keep it in your hand luggage; our guide to proposing abroad, customs and airport security covers the practical side, including insurance while you travel.
Getting the ring made before you go
If you are planning a proposal in Big Sur and Carmel from the UK, or you live in the US and want a ring designed in Britain, the design can be done remotely: a video consultation, sketches and a CAD render you approve before anything is made, then crafted by specialist goldsmiths. Our page on how to commission your ring remotely walks through each step. Leave a few weeks of breathing room before your travel date, so a resize or a small change does not crowd the trip.
Frequently asked questions
Where is the best place to propose in Big Sur?
A safe official viewpoint over the ocean, a cove below the cliffs or Carmel's beach at sunset are all lovely choices.
Is the Pacific Coast Highway ever closed?
Sections can close after storms or landslides. Check road conditions before you travel.
What if it is foggy?
Fog is common on this coast. Have a second time or place in mind, such as Carmel's beach later in the day.