Wedding Anniversary Gifts by Year: A Jewellery Guide

TL;DR: Each wedding anniversary year has a traditional gift material — diamonds for 60th, pearl for 30th, sapphire for 45th — alongside a modern equivalent list. Jewellery is a natural gift for many milestone years, and a bespoke piece lets you use the actual traditional material rather than a generic version of it.

Key Jewellery-Relevant Anniversary Years

Year Traditional Modern
10th Tin Diamond jewellery
15th Crystal Watches
20th China Platinum
25th Silver Silver jewellery
30th Pearl Diamond jewellery
35th Coral Emerald
40th Ruby Ruby
45th Sapphire Sapphire
50th Gold Gold jewellery
60th Diamond Diamond

Why These Milestones Suit an Eternity Ring

Several of the jewellery-relevant years (25th, 30th, 40th, 45th, 60th) map directly onto stones or metals well suited to an eternity ring — see our full eternity ring guide and our piece on when to give one for the full picture.

Beyond the Traditional Material

You don't need to follow the list literally — a 40th anniversary ruby doesn't have to be a ruby ring specifically; a ruby accent stone, a ruby-red gemstone alternative, or simply acknowledging the year with a bespoke piece in any material all work. The list is a starting point for inspiration, not a strict rule.

Designing an Anniversary Piece at À Vie Diamonds

Get in touch to discuss a bespoke anniversary commission built around your specific year and materials.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the traditional gift for a 25th wedding anniversary? Silver, both traditionally and in the modern list — a popular year for silver jewellery.

Do I have to follow the anniversary gift list exactly? No — it's a starting point for inspiration, not a strict rule.

Last reviewed: July 2026 · À Vie Diamonds

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