The short answer: a diamond lapel pin makes a thoughtful wedding piece for the groom, or a matching gift for groomsmen, and it should be small, secure and matched to the other metals worn on the day. It also becomes a keepsake long after the wedding.
Wedding clothing leaves little room for personal jewellery, and a lapel pin is a discreet way to add meaning.
For the groom
- A small diamond pin that echoes the bride's ring.
- A pin with a tiny stone from a family piece, if one is available.
- A pin set with a birthstone or a stone from a shared date.
For groomsmen
A matching set gives the group a coordinated look and doubles as a gift. Choose a simple shape in the same metal. Tell us how many you need when you first get in touch, so we can plan the order and timing.
For fathers
A slightly different design for each father can mark the day without competing with the groom.
Ideas
| Idea | Style |
|---|---|
| Classic | Round diamond in a small bezel |
| Initials | Small gold monogram |
| Symbolic | A shape that suits the couple |
Where the pin goes
A lapel pin usually sits on the left lapel, either through the buttonhole or just above it, roughly in line with the top of the breast pocket. If the groom wears a buttonhole flower, the pin can sit just below it or be worn instead of it. Groomsmen look neatest when their pins sit at the same height, so it is worth a quick check before photographs. Our guides to how to wear a diamond lapel pin and lapel pins, tie pins and tie bars explain the differences.
Matching the day
Match the metal to cufflinks and to the wedding bands. If the bride's ring is in rose gold, a rose gold pin may tie the look together. For a full set, see our guide to wedding cufflinks for the groom and groomsmen.
Gifts that last
A pin is small enough to be kept in a drawer between occasions, and it can be worn again at later weddings, at work and at formal events. That is why many groomsmen treasure it more than a one day accessory.
Fastenings and security
A small, valuable pin needs a secure back. A locking clutch, which clicks into place and needs a deliberate press to release, holds far better than a simple friction back. On a heavy wool jacket, a slightly longer post helps the pin sit flat. We choose the fastening to suit the fabric and show you how it works before the day.
Practical tips
- Decide on the wedding date and order well in advance.
- Try the pin on the jacket you will wear.
- Keep a spare locking back.
Timing and ordering
Our standard making time is 5 to 6 weeks, which can vary with your location and how busy we are, and a group order needs extra time for design approval. We suggest getting in touch at least three months before the wedding. Nothing is made until you approve the design in writing. Pieces start from £600.
Browse diamonds and read how to wear a diamond lapel pin. For bands, see wedding bands.
Frequently asked questions
Can I use a lab grown diamond? Yes, we label it clearly.
Can the pin be engraved? Often yes, and we talk through what suits the design.
How early should I order? We suggest at least three months before the wedding.
Which lapel does it go on? Usually the left, through or just above the buttonhole.
Can you deliver abroad? Yes, by insured, tracked FedEx, and we explain any import duty and tax for your country.